When push comes to shove, Dear One, when everyone around you seems to be doing a lot of pushing and shoving, trying to keep up, trying to get ahead, trying to win, here is what you should do to make sure that they do not get the jump on you:
Step aside.
Let those pushing, push along without you.
Let those shoving, shove right by.
Believe us when we tell you, that you do NOT want to go where they are going.
The next time you are feeling lonely, alone or disconnected Dear One, instead of feeling badly about it, instead of focusing on those feelings, which will only serve to exacerbate them, use them as an opportunity to grant yourself permission to take some time to go within.
When you do, you just may get a glimpse at the eternity, the universe, the divinity that lives within you, that connects you to everyone and every other living thing in your world.
And once you see that, it will be difficult for you to ever to feel really lonely, alone or disconnected again.
The physical is the leading edge of thought Dear One, the leading edge of all that is. And you, your present moment, is the tip of the iceberg. You are leading the charge.
We just thought you should know.
What is the best way that you can think of Dear One, to lose a relationship with someone or something that you love?
What has experience taught you?
We’ll remind you of just a few:
If you did all or even some of these things in a relationship with something that you cared for, be it a person, a pet, a hobby, a talent, a project, a job, your health, etc., experience has taught you that over time the result would be that your connection to it would fade. And if you did it long enough, your relationship with it would eventually end altogether.
Well, the same holds true for relationships with people and things that you don’t love, that you don’t care for, that you don’t want in your life anymore too.
You don’t have to fight, struggle, work or try as hard as you’ve been trying to eliminate those things in your life that you don’t want there anymore Dear One.
Simply start neglecting them and it won’t be long before they will leave on their own accord.
All of the imbalance that exists in the world Dear One, is a reflection of the imbalance that exists within each and every one of you.
If you would like to see, feel, and experience more balance in the people, policies, and practices around you, start by restoring the balance within yourself. Do this and you will immediately begin to see your world transform as a result.
Now you know Dear One, there absolutely is something that you can do about it.
When you doubt yourself Dear One, when you ignore your heart, your instincts, intuitions and hunches, it is essentially the same as choosing to ignore the directions being given to you by the GPS system in your car.
What you want is your desired destination, and your instincts are the turn-by-turn directions being served up to you by your higher-self to get you there.
As you know very well from experience by now, there are an unlimited number of paths available to you that will get you to where you want to go. There is no “right” path and there is no “wrong” path.
BUT there are more and less direct paths that you can follow.
Listen to your heart Dear One, follow your instincts, trust your intuition, and act on your hunches and you can proceed confidently knowing that you are traveling the most direct route possible from where you are to where you want to be.
Did you know that any decision that you make confidently, joyfully, with an open heart, from a good feeling place, regardless of how impetuous or how well thought out it may be, will always bring you closer to that which you are seeking than any made from a place of tension, stress, confusion, turmoil or emotional distress?
It’s true!
Step out onto the field today as a pitcher instead of a catcher Dear One, and watch how your perspective of the whole game changes right before your eyes.
Allow yourself to relinquish control, Dear One.
Allow yourself to bond with your own heart.
Allow yourself to feel its beating. Allow yourself to feel its wanting. Allow yourself to feel its passion. Allow yourself to notice its subtleties – when it is happy, or glad, or giddy, when it is questioning, when it is certain, when it is emotionless, when it is filled with joy, filled with regret, filled with sadness, filled with love.
Allow yourself to feel it all Dear One. Allow yourself to want more for yourself than just the absence of discomfort, the absence of pain, the absence of desire.
Please do not make it your hearts ambition to feel as little as possible Dear One.
For that would be as great a loss as choosing to close your eyes forever after witnessing only one sunrise.
When you are hurting Dear One, when you are in pain, please remember this; you have come to this place to heal this place.
You did not end up here because you did something wrong. You did not end up here because you are being punished. You did not end up here because you are being tested, tortured, or asked to prove yourself.
You ended up here Dear One, for one reason and one reason only, because you are being given an opportunity to heal.