If you don’t want it anymore Dear One, if it is your intention to be done with it forever, to remove it from your life because it no longer serves you, contrary to what you may believe and what prior experience may have taught you, you don’t need to exert a great deal of effort to rid yourself of it, to eliminate it from your experience.

In fact, you really don’t need to exert any effort at all.

You simply need to stop choosing it.

How do you do that?

By not giving it even one more minute of your attention.

There are so many beautiful things that you want for yourself in this life Dear One.

Why waste even one more second of your time focused on anything else?

You can’t punish yourself for a mistake, misjudgment, or misstep Dear One, and rectify it at the same it.

You’re going to have to choose, one or the other.

You’re going to have to decide which is more important to you; returning to a state of balanced well-being or remaining self-critical.

So, what’s it going to be?

• We forgive you  Dear One, for not always trusting your instincts

• We forgive you for making careless mistakes because you were not paying attention

• We forgive you for being exceptionally hard on yourself in response to both of the above

• We forgive you for resisting change, even when you know it will serve you well

• We forgive you for being afraid

• We forgive you for being critical, judgmental, and dismissive of yourself and those around you in response to insecurity

• We forgive you for not acting from a place of clarity and certainty even when you are clear and certain

• We forgive you for not allowing yourself to shift easily into the place of well-being that you know that you are being guided towards

We forgive you for all of these things and more – done yesterday, today and even those that you will do tomorrow.

Why?  Because we feel nothing but love for you Dear One.

Now it’s your turn.

Friend, boyfriend, lover, wife, spouse, partner, neighbor, sister, brother, cousin, best friend, confidant, significant other, soul mate, buddy, companion, associate, cohort or chum. 

You have lots of ways of defining, categorizing and labeling your relationships Dear One.  And we realize that these measures can be greatly varied, intricately complicated, highly emotional, and hold a great deal of significance for you.   We know that they strongly influence and in some cases totally determine how you act towards someone, how you think, feel and react around them, and your expectations of them.   We get it. We really do understand.

But from where we are standing there truly is only one measure by which all relationships are defined, categorized and labeled — and that measure Dear One, is the amount of love shared.

As we see it, how you choose to define a relationship is so much less significant than the amount of love that you choose to bring to it and allow yourself to experience within it.

So, what is in a name Dear One?

As far as we are concerned, as long as there is love there, not a whole hell of a lot.

You want to create more balance in your life Dear One?

This is what you need to do:

• be indulgent and disciplined
• be strong and vulnerable
• be brave and cautious
• be selfish and generous
• be flexible and committed
• be playful and work hard

Contrary to what you may believe, balance is not actually achieved by standing still on the point in the middle.

Choosing to hold on Dear One, just may be the choice that is holding you back.

Something that is right for you, that is a vibration match to you, will move right along with you.

If you have to stop, stand still or move backwards repeatedly or for extended periods of time in order to keep it, if you feel like you are having to hold-on tighter and tighter to keep from losing it, you may want to consider the possibility that it is no longer right for you, and that it may be time for you to let it go and move on without it.

There is no such thing as impossible Dear One.  There are only those things that you have not yet seen come to pass.

There is a huge difference between never and not yet.

Practice saying “not yet” instead of “never” and your whole perspective of the world, of what’s possible, will change.

Never closes doors Dear One.

Not yet blows them wide open.

Do you want to know the best way to protect yourself in love Dear One, to take care of your heart and keep it safe, to strengthen it, guard it, honor and respect it?

We’ll tell you.

Open it, trust it, and use it, as often as you possibly can.

That’s how.

Do you want to know what you can do right now to start feeling better Dear One?

• Choose a thought that makes you feel better than the one you were just thinking.

That’s how.

The truth Dear One, your truth is that place from where you allow your thoughts, words, actions and deeds to be dictated from.

• Is your truth fear, uncertainty, insecurity, doubt or judgment?
• Or, is your truth confidence, strength, love, compassion or humility?

The truth is Dear One, that your truth is what you make it.