If you want to start feeling better about the decisions that you are making in your life Dear One, we have a suggestion for you:

Only make decisions that you feel good about and stop asking other people what they think about them.

The root of your insecurity is not your height Dear One. And it is not your weight, hair, job or clothes either. It is not how you were raised, how much money you have, where you grew up, where you live now, or how much you think you are loved. It is not your siblings, your spouse or ex-best friend, and it is most definitely not your mother.

The root of your insecurity Dear One, is your head.

You head will tell you stories. It will tell you that something is wrong when it is not, that something is missing when it is well within your reach, or that something is about to disappear that is rightfully yours forever. It will tell you that if you are not careful, if you do pay attention and play by the rules that you could lose all that you have, never get all that you want, and end up with everything that you fear and despise.

Do you want to know how to put an end to it, and rid yourself of all of your insecure thoughts?

Ask your heart Dear One. It will only ever tell you the truth.

Forgive yourself Dear One, for whatever it is.

Why?

Because you can’t beat yourself up and heal, make amends, or move forward and create in any positive or useful way until you do.

That’s why

Celebrate, embrace, and take advantage of the contrasts in your life Dear One, don’t curse them. They are a gift.

Without them you would have absolutely no way of knowing just how far you’ve come or in which direction you were headed.

The idea is not to work yourself to the point of exhaustion Dear One.

The idea is to work yourself to the point of exhilaration.

If you work and work and work and at the end of the day, feel worse than you did than at the beginning, you may want to spend a little time reevaluating what it is that you are really working for, what it is you are really working to create for yourself.

You can choose to believe that you can handle this Dear One, or you can choose to believe that you can’t.

Whatever choice you make, you’ll be right.

Everything that you are wanting Dear One, is available to you in the present moment – joy, health, love, laughter, change, abundance, freedom – all of it.

Choose it in the moment and it will be yours, right now.

Continue to choose it over and over again, and it will be yours forever.

Love is a choice Dear One.

The experience of it, the giving and receiving of it, does not just happen. You have to choose it, you have to choose to open yourself up to it, to allow it.

When two people make the decision to choose to experience it together, to give and receive it openly, freely, and confidently, to open themselves up to an experience of the divine and let love flow to them and through them, that is a sacred act, that is an example of a sacred union; a merging of you, them and the energy of all that is.

A holy man, a place of worship, a ritual, a doctrine, a document or a vow is not the force that makes the union sacred Dear One, you are.

Nothing happens in your life without your consent, without your permission, without you either consciously or unconsciously agreeing to it, allowing it, inviting it in. Nothing.

You want to have a different experience Dear One?

Stop consenting to this one.

We can see that you are patiently waiting Dear One; for someone to tell you what to do, or not to do, for lightening to strike, for the dam to break, for an answer to appear, for a hand to reach out and grab yours, for inspiration, for a brilliant idea, for something, anything to give you a clue, show you a sign, motivate you to action, push you in the right direction.

And the more that you do that, the longer that you wait, the more reasons, opportunities, and circumstances you are going to attract into your life that will allow you to continue to wait.

So unless what you are looking for is more of the same, more of what you’ve already got, waiting is most definitely not the answer for you.

You should know that waiting will never get you what you want, who you want, or where you want to go.

If you really want these things Dear One, the waiting needs to end, right now.

Now is not the time for you to be waiting, for anything or anyone anyway.

Now is the time for you to be creating.

Create Dear One, don’t wait, and you will begin to attract more creative energy into your life, more creative answers and solutions.

Create Dear One, at the wait will at long last, finally be over.