Being a good friend, Dear One, does not require you to lay down, and fill the gaps, so they can tread across you to get to where they think they need to go.

Being a good friend is showing up as the best version of yourself to give them something meaningful, powerful, authentic, honorable, and loving to connect with.

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They will follow your lead, Dear One.

They will take their direction from you.

They will treat you the way that they see you treating you.

Just one more reason for you to treat yourself well.

Just one more reason for you to treat yourself with loving kindness, forgiveness, flexibility, generosity, honesty, compassion, and respect.

If you are waiting for things to get better before you think a better thought, Dear One, you could be waiting a long time.

If you think a better thought right now, things would start getting better right now.

So, you’ve got a decision to make.

Do you want things getting better now, or do you want to continue to wait?

Mastery is not about perfection, Dear One, or doing, being or creating something that is the best or better than anyone else.

To achieve mastery is to achieve a state of being fully present, of being fully aware of what is happening around you and within you, and what is available to you in each and every unique moment of your life, acknowledging it, taking it in, allowing it to inspire, inform, motivate, shape, and influence your thoughts, actions and beliefs from moment to moment.

Masters are not superior beings, Dear One, they are not better people than everyone else.  They are simply more practiced at living in the now and taking advantage of all of the gifts that are available to them in the present moment.

They don’t try to create exceptional, superior, or richer work, but being fully present, they have  a deeper, richer, more connected productive and fruitful experience of each moment, and that experience gets expressed, gets translated into all that they do.

If you want to achieve mastery, Dear One, don’t try to be better at what you do, try to be more present while you are doing it, and you will be on  your way.

It’ll stop, Dear One, when you stop it.

And you’ll stop it when you shift.

And you’ll shift when you align.

And you’ll align when you allow.

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• Whether you know it or not…
• Whether you believe it or not…
• Whether you acknowledge it or not…
• Whether you choose to consciously participate in the process or not…

You are still the creator of your world, Dear One.

You are still the most powerful force influencing your reality.

You are still the one responsible for determining all that you are, all that you have, and all that you are capable of.

In fact, you are doing it right now.  The thoughts that you are thinking, your actions, your words, your beliefs, and your attitude are creating your reality right this very minute.

We can understand your desire to want to protect yourself, Dear One, to want to keep yourself safe from harm, to want to do all that you can to avoid injuring yourself, both physically and emotionally, and to want to keep others from doing the same.  And you should know that we want that for you too.

You should also know that nothing makes you more vulnerable then cutting yourself off from your source, than shutting down your heart, ignoring your intuition, and holding yourself back because you are afraid.

The more you trust, Dear One, the more you open up, the more you allow yourself to love, connect, and move forward with an open heart, the safer you will be.

You are not falling short, you are not failing them, you are not failing anyone, Dear One, when you choose to love you, to respect you, to honor yourself and the needs of your body, mind, and spirit, above all else.

In fact, when you prioritize yourself, you are doing the exact opposite.

When you choose you, Dear One, you are gaining more of, creating more of, strengthening and expanding the most important thing, the most truly valuable contribution that you will and could ever  make to this world, which is more of you!

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Everything that you do (or don’t do), everything that you think, feel, say, choose, create, or destroy, makes an impact, Dear One — on you, on your body, on every single cell in it, on your environment, on the people around you, on their attitudes, actions, behaviors, and beliefs, on everything.

It can’t be helped. It’s just the way it is. You live in a vibrational universe.

We are telling you this today, Dear One, so that you know that when you get up each morning and start your day, that you don’t have to decide, that you don’t have to make a conscious decision about whether or not you are going to try and make an impact on the world around you.

Because you will, not matter what.

When it comes to making an impact, Dear One, the only real question that you have to ask yourself is “What kind of impact do I want to make today?”.

A lack of confidence is just an excuse, Dear One, it is not a good enough reason not to try.