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What do you want to know about your soul’s agenda?
On: Reducing struggle
Trust more, struggle less.
That’s all there is to it Dear One.
The more you allow yourself to trust, the more you practice trusting; spirit, source, yourself, your intuition, your gut, your own personal guidance system, whatever that may be, the less you will experience struggle.
Don’t think too much about this Dear One.
Don’t struggle with the idea. Don’t spend too much time trying to decide whether or not you believe this to be true.
Just trust that it is, and find out for yourself.
On: Why love
Why love each other Dear One, and hold on to each other, for a minute, an hour, a decade, a lifetime?
The answer is simple.
Because it feels good to do so.
On: The price of loyalty
If it did not bring you joy yesterday, or the day before that, or the day before that, what makes you think it is going to bring you joy today, or tomorrow?
Unhappiness is much too high a price to pay for loyalty Dear One.
On: Love hurts?
Love is not a source of pain Dear One.
Love doesn’t hurt. Love feels wonderful. Love is wonderful.
Love is not what causes you to hurt. It is your worry that it won’t be returned, your fear of losing it, your unmet expectations, your perceived lack of it, that does it.
Love is not the source of your pain Dear One, your focused attention on worry, fear, lack and loss is.
On: Missing them
Don’t miss them Dear One.
Close your eyes, open your heart and connect with them instead.
On: What you think
What you think of you is so much more important than what they think of you Dear One.
- What you think of you impacts the choices that you make
- What you think of you influences the company that you keep
- What you think of you determines the kind of friend that you are
- What you think of you inspires that work that you do
- What you think of you governs the chances that you take
- What you think of you shapes who you are and the direction of your life
What they think of you reflects what they think of you.
On: The facts
- You are deeply loved Dear One
- You are cherished
- You are adored
- You are capable
- You are absolutely necessary
Carry these facts with you throughout your day, your week, your month, your life.
Make all of your decisions as if there was someone standing beside you, holding your hand, encouraging you, supporting you, loving you, cheering you on every step of the way.
Because there is.
On: Helping
Just the same way that helping others affords you the opportunity to feel good about yourself Dear One, useful, as if you are serving your life’s purpose, you allowing them to help you when you are in need, does the same for them.
Let them help you when you need it Dear One.
It’s the only fair thing to do.
On: Try it and see
TRY letting joy guide your choices today Dear One, instead of obligation, fear, reason, logic, avoidance or self-loathing.
SEE if you like where you end up as a result.
On: Decision time
This is your life Dear One.
These are your decisions to make.
No one else can make them for you.
No one else can tell you what you do.
But today, just this once, we are going to make an exception, and do just that.
- Make yourself the priority in your life
- Make choices that make you happy
- Decide that you are worth it
- Do more of the things that bring you pleasure and less of the things that don’t
- Love yourself unconditionally
- Trust in your ability to do all of the above, well
Do what your told Dear One, and you just might find that once you do, all of the other decisions in your life become a whole lot easier to make.