FACT:

• Doubt breeds doubt
• Confidence breeds confidence

If you stopped second guessing yourself Dear One, for every single thing you do, and every single choice you make, and every single feeling you have, you just might find yourself having much less reason to do so.

Contrary to popular belief Dear One, managing your daily schedule is not just another task for you to contend with or another opportunity for you to exercise your highly superior or greatly lacking time management and organizational skills.  It is also not just the practice of finding ways to fit in or juggle every single opportunity, obligation, need, want, or desire that crosses your path.

What it is actually is an opportunity for you to engage in a very sacred and divine act.  One of the most sacred available to you actually – the act of managing your life, of choosing, of selecting, of deciding how you want to spend your time, who you want to spend it with, and what it is you want to do with this very precious gift that has been granted to you, to use as you wish, each and every day in this physical reality.

You can choose to see the management of your time as a daily task or obligation or you can choose to see it as a sacred act.

Your choice will tell you much about your view and approach to life Dear One, so pay close attention to your answer.

• Pray for it
• Visualize it
• Imagine it
• Feel it
• Look for it
• Enthusiastically anticipate its arrival

All of these are very sound and powerful steps for you to take when you are working on manifesting change in your life Dear One.

But it is important for you to know that these steps are conditional.

In order for any of these to work with any level of effectiveness, you must first do one very important thing: Make the decision with absolute certainty that you are ready and willing to change – your thoughts, your actions, your behaviors, your relationships, your boundaries, your belief in what’s possible, your belief in yourself and your belief in what you are capable of.

You can’t stay rooted exactly where you are, doing exactly what you have done, thinking exactly what you have thought, feeling exactly what you have felt,  and expect to manifest change in your life, regardless of how badly you want it.

Transformation can only occur when you allow it to occur Dear One.

Trying to determine where you are in your life, your level of success, by looking to your past to see where you have been and looking to your future to see where you are heading, will not yield you any meaningful results Dear One.

Why?

Because the spectrum on which you are standing is eternal. Trying to determine your location in the eternal would be like trying gauge the location of a specific drop of water in the ocean.

If you want to know where you stand in the spectrum of your life Dear One, your level of success, answer the only question that will ever be able to provide you with a meaningful answer:

Am I happy, now?

Asking Why? cannot change your circumstances Dear One, but getting happy can.

YOU Dear One, who you are, your authentic self, is the greatest gift that you have to give to the world.

You want to know how you can be of greatest service today?

Be you.

There is nothing wrong with feeling self-pity Dear One.  It is a very human state that everyone experiences from time to time.

If something happens, or does not happen, that leaves you feeling badly for yourself or about yourself, don’t add to your discontent by denying your feelings about it.  We encourage you to fully engage in whatever feelings arise as a result, including self-pity, if that is what you are truly feeling.

One small piece of advice:  just don’t choose to dwell there.

Remember that all of the time that you invest in feeling sorry yourself, is time that you are not investing in doing something productive, positive, or pleasurable for yourself that just might make you feel better.

Anything that you believe is possible is what’s possible Dear One.

It only fades if you let it fade Dear One – if you choose to let it go, day by day, choice by choice.

It only fades when you decide to allow something else to capture your attention, to distract you, to become more important.

You can choose to remember or you can choose to forget.

But know Dear One, that it is a choice and that it is yours to make.

• Keep focusing your attention on all that you do not have, on all that is not working, on all that you have lost – and you know what you will get?  More of the same.
•  Keep focusing your attention on all that you have, on all that is working, on and all that you want – and you know what you will get?

Exactly!