Take notice of the hands that you are holding onto Dear One, the connections that you are choosing to maintain, and ask yourself;
If you are not sure, let go for a little while and find out.
It’s important that you know.
Be optimistic today Dear One. Practice your optimism.
Move through your day believing, trusting, knowing that everything is going to be ok, that everything is going to work out.
Why?
Because being negative does not serve you in any positive way. And more importantly, because being negative just doesn’t feel good.
Do you really need a better reason that that?
*We realize that this request may present a bit of a challenge for you Dear One if you are not already in the habit of looking for the bright side of things, but trust us when we tell you that it will be well worth the effort. After all, what have you got to lose?
Just in case you needed it Dear One, here is one more reason why no matter what, under any circumstance, you should always be yourself.
Because the reality of you, of who you are, is and always will be infinitely more powerful, more likable, more effective, more creative, more beautiful, more everything, than any illusion of you ever could be.
And the truth of it is that whether they admit it or not (to you or to themselves), the people that you are putting on the act for can tell the difference anyway.
The company that you keep Dear One, impacts your physical, mental, and emotional health in much the same way that the foods that eat do.
We would love to see you become as selective, aware, and intentional about who you choose to spend your time with, and who you give your time, energy and attention to, as you are about what you choose to consume.
Do this Dear One, and you we think that you will quickly discover that why you feel the way that you do at any given moment in time is really much less of a mystery than you may have originally thought.
If you want to live a different life Dear One, if you want to live the life of your dreams, you can. But you should know that it will come at a cost. Sacrifices are going to have to be made.
You are going to have to sacrifice the old vision that you have had of yourself, the old story that you have been telling about yourself, the old limitations that you have been holding onto, the old patterns that you have been maintaining, the old heartaches that you have been nursing, the old hurts that you have been hanging on to.
Do you think you can do that?
Do you want to know how to transform even the most complicated situation into a simple one? We’ll tell you.
When considering all of the possible ways in which you could choose to respond, choose the simplest one, every time.
That is all there is to it!
The best and only way to create simplicity from complexity Dear One, is to choose it.
Please don’t waste any more of your time Dear One, trying to make the right impression, trying to fit in, trying to be accepted, trying to make them see, like, or love you.
Because no matter how hard you try, no matter how much you plan, no matter how much effort you put into it, no matter how careful you are, you are never going to be able to control what they think of you.
That is not your choice to make. It is theirs and theirs alone.
Are you starting to get the idea?
Know this Dear One; there is no greater risk that you can take than to ignore the call of your heart.
What you do today matters so much more than what you did yesterday Dear One.
If you want to fix it, if you want to make things better, if you want to make things right, keep your attention, energy, and actions focused here instead of there.