Something’s coming Dear One.
Something wonderfully unexpected is headed your way.
Something that will delight, excite, and thrill you.
Something that is going to make you very happy, and bring you lot and lots of joy.
Get excited, feel excited, be really excited about it Dear One, because it is almost here!
And once you are there, once you are in that place, once you are in a state of glorious, giddy, delightful anticipation, stay there, until it arrives.
Balance is…
Balance is not achieved by standing still on the point in the middle.
Think about what motivates your own poor, rash, unkind, thoughtless, inconsiderate, impulsive, fearful, or aggressive behavior Dear One.
Is it an intentional desire to hurt, upset, inconvenience, distress, or disrespect those around you, or is it something else?
Just something to think about before you take their words, actions, attitudes, or behaviors to heart.
The absolute worst thing in the world that you can do for or to yourself or anyone else Dear One, is something that you believe is wrong.
You are here for the pleasure of it Dear One.
It’s just that simple.
Direct your energy consciously Dear One, and it will go where you send it.
You will always pretty much know in what direction it is headed, and it is unlikely that you will ever be completely surprised when it gets there.
(Excited, yes! Pleased, absolutely! Overjoyed, of course! But totally surprised, probably not.)
But stop paying attention, and hand the reigns over to your unconscious self and let it do the driving, and you can pretty much guarantee that you will always be surprised by where your energy ends up.
If that destination is a good surprise for you, fantastic! That means that your unconscious self is serving you well.
However if the destination is not a good surprise, if you are finding yourself on the receiving end of something that you did not request, that is not desired in any way, shape or form, well then you’ve got some work to do.
But you’ve also got a very useful piece of information in your hands Dear One, a confirmation that you are not paying as close attention as you could be to how you are directing and flowing your energy.
And unlike an unwelcome surprise that has already found its way to your doorstep, that is something that you absolutely can do something about.
Are you ready to put a permanent end to you worrying about making mistakes?
If you really are – then read on.
There are no mistakes Dear One. There are only experiences.
You’ve truly got nothing to worry about.
You can’t force change Dear One, upon yourself or anyone else.
You (they) will change only when you (they) are inspired to do so. When you (they) believe that doing so will be to your (their) greatest advantage, to your (their) greatest benefit.
That is why people can and do endure the pain, discomfort and effort that can sometimes accompany change.
Not because they like it, not because they enjoy it, not because it is easy for them, not because they believe that they should or have something to prove.
They do it Dear One, because they know that doing so is going to serve them.
Enduring pain and discomfort on an inspired path to change is an empowering and joyful experience. It builds strength, endurance, and confidence.
Enduring pain and discomfort in the name of change when it is forced upon you, by yourself or by someone else, without a solid belief or knowing that it is for your greatest good, is a depleting experience . It only serves to weaken you, frustrate you, discourage you, and contribute to greater imbalance in your life.
That Dear One, is why change can’t be forced.
If you are feeling badly for them Dear One, if you are feeling sad for them, if you are hurting for them, feeling their pain, and wanting desperately to help in any way that you possibly can, our advice to you is this – DON’T.
Don’t try to fix it. Don’t try to make it all better. Don’t start looking for answers. Don’t try to come up with brilliant solutions.
Here’s what you should do instead.
Focus on feeling good. Focus on feeling better. Focus on whatever it is that you need to focus on to release your sadness for them and come back into alignment with your higher self, with your confident self, with your all knowing, joyous self.
Once you do that Dear One, then, and only then will you be in a position to be able to help in any meaningful way, and not a moment before.