Everything feels a whole lot harder Dear One, when you tell yourself that you can’t.

Life is hard enough already.  Why add to it.

If for no other reason than that fact that it feels better to do so, why not tell yourself that you can instead.

If you don’t like something the way that it is Dear One, don’t try to change it.

That’s right. You heard us correctly.

Don’t try to improve it, fight it, repair it or make it better.

Don’t exert your very valuable energy trying to twist it, turn it, mold it, or fold it into something else, into something new, into something that you want it to be.

Let it be Dear One, just as it is.   Let that which you don’t want be exactly as it is.

Decide to let it go and make the choice to start again with a clean slate, with a new mindset.  Decide to exert your energy, your time, your heart and your soul into creating that which you do want instead of changing that which you do not.

Sometimes the most powerful thing you can say Dear One, is I’m sorry.

Sometimes the most powerful thing you can be, is forgiving.

Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do, is let go.

Do you want to know where you belong Dear One?

You belong in a place that makes you happy.  You belong with people that you love and that love you.  You belong wherever it is that you feel strong, supported, powerful, and creative.  You belong where you feel encouraged, inspired, and energized, hopeful, courageous, accepted and safe.

That is where you belong Dear One.

If, when you look around you, you find that you are not in a place like this, then perhaps it is time for you to acknowledge that where you are, might not be the right place for you.

There is a reason that you feel a strong desire for a physical connection with others Dear One, aside from just a longing for sexual gratification — be it through a nudge or a tickle, a handshake or a hug, a kiss, a smack, an intimate embrace, or, of course, through sex.

Do you want to know why that is Dear One?

It is because you all have source within you.  You all have a spark of the divine that exists within your physical bodies, and aside from your connection to it through your own heart, the next closest source of divine energy that is available to you at all times, is each other.

There are many things in this world that you can’t control Dear One.

But your thoughts are not one of them.

If the one that you are thinking right now is not pleasing to you, does not feel good, is not causing you joy,  we want to remind you that you can take charge, and choose another.

Some thoughts can be so overwhelming, so all encompassing, so powerful that it can be easy to forget that you are choosing them.

But make no mistake Dear One, you are.

What are you waiting for Dear One?

What are you saving it for?

What are you saving you for?

Why not give it everything you’ve got?

• Here
• Now
• Today

Yes, there is a chance that things might not work out the way that you want them to.

But there is also a chance that they might work out even better than that, better than anything you ever could have ever possibly imagined for yourself.

You’ll never know if you never try.

Yes, it’s a risk Dear One.

But one that we really think you should take.

So, will you take it?

What you do today matters so much more than what you did yesterday Dear One.

Your energy, your attention, your effort, your focus, your creativity, your love, will be so much better spent here, rather than there.

Don’t look at it as if you are making the decision to give something up Dear One.

Because we know that giving something up can be really, really, hard to do.

Especially if it something that you love, find comfort in, or have become accustomed to.

Trying seeing it from a new perspective – for what it really is.

Making an empowered choice to pick something new instead.

You’re never going to be finished Dear One. You’re never going to get it all done.  So you might as well stop trying.