The most productive thing that you can for yourself today Dear One, is to get happy.

If you continue to insist on holding on to the belief that who you are is not enough Dear One, that who you are is less than that which anyone else is,  life will go right on proving to you that you right.

• You cannot undo that which has been done
• You cannot change a moment in the past
• You cannot take back words once they have been spoken
• You cannot always fix it

But you can always apologize Dear One.

An apology is meant to serve as a diffuser, an acknowledgment of regret, an opportunity for forgiveness, to allow the release of the hurt feelings created as a result of hurtful act, whether it was intentional or not.

But before it can have any chance of successfully doing any of these things, it is necessary that you first forgive yourself.

It is essential that you first release the pain, the sorrow, the guilt, the regret that you are holding onto within you.  It is essential  that you find a way to let it go, and open up, and heal that space within you so that you can show them how its done, show them what it looks like to do so, have room in your heart to share with them Dear One, to help give them the strength to do the same.

We understand that what we are asking is not an easy thing to do.

But remember, that what you are asking them to do is even more difficult than that.

How can you even think of asking them to do this very difficult thing, to accept your apology, to consider forgiveness Dear One, if you are not willing to do the very difficult work necessary to forgive yourself first.

Just a reminder of what you’ve got inside Dear One.

• Choice is your gift
• Consciousness is your cure
• Your heart is your guide
• Thoughts are your fuel
• Desire is your driver
• Love is your pleasure
• Happiness is your choice

They are all already yours Dear One.

Now all you’ve got to do is remember to pull them out and use them when needed.

Do just one thing at a time Dear one, joyously, with an open heart and an open mind, and you will be right back on track – aligned with your life’s mission – to complete nothing and experience everything.

The more you learn Dear One, the more you grow, the more you figure out, the better it gets!

That’s why.

Don’t ask us if you can trust them Dear One.

Our answer will never satisfy you, and you know it.

When it comes the question of trust, the most important answer will always be yours, to the question, Do you trust you?

If you don’t trust yourself, their trust will always be in question for you.

And the only way to get better at trusting yourself Dear One, is to practice.

Why not start today.

Don’t help them to carry their burden Dear One.

If you want to be useful, help them to put it down instead.

When is it that you typically start thinking about quitting Dear One?

What we have witnessed is that it is usually when you find yourself in a situation/experiencing something, that makes you feel as if you are not succeeding, as if you are failing.

You typically want to quit when you think that you can’t finish, win or cope, or when you do not see enough evidence of success.

Well you should know Dear One, that the only time that you will ever find evidence of failure, or of a lack of success, is when you go looking for it.

So don’t!

What kind of life do you want to live Dear One?

• What kind of person do you want to be?
• What kind of work do you want to do?
• What kind of impact to do you want to make?
• What kind of impression do you want to leave behind?

Do your thoughts, words, actions, values, beliefs and attitude align with your desires?

If they don’t, do you think that perhaps you could pay closer attention to your choices and make the necessary adjustments so that they do?

There is nothing more exciting, fulfilling or empowering Dear One, then identifying a desire and then choosing your way into alignment with it.

And there is nothing that we would love more than to see you have that experience.