Cuando se trata de tus relaciones, querido/a, ¿qué deseas más?
¿Seguir protegiéndote?
¿O experimentar conexiones más profundas, más ricas, más fuertes y más significativas que nunca antes?
No puedes hacer ambas cosas al mismo tiempo.
Al final, tendrás que elegir.
Leaping and being pushed are two completely different experiences, Dear One.
A friend that encourages you to leap is a good friend indeed.
A friend that pushes you over the edge, with or without your consent, is no friend at all.
When exiting a comfort zone, Dear One, you should always do so by choice, of your own free will.
Leaping and being pushed do not both land you in the same spot.
Remember that.
Freedom comes to you, belongs to you, is yours, Dear One, when you take ownership of it.
Whatever it is you are feeling today, once and for all, claim it as your own. Not as something someone gave to you. Not as something someone forced up on you. Not as something you inherited. And definitely not as something you were tricked into picking up.
Own it, Dear One. Totally and completely as your own.
Because if you are feeling it, it already exists within you, it’s already a part of you, it’s already yours. And THAT ownership, Dear One, is not debatable.
And once you own it, accept it, claim it as your own, acknowledge that it belongs to you, then, and only then will you have the power to decide what to do with it, will you be able to decide what will become of it, will you be free to do with it as you please.
And not a moment before.
^
Do you want to know how to find your center, Dear One? Do you want to know how to move towards a greater state of balance?
Look for, seek out, create, move towards, spread, allow yourself to experience joy, as much of it as you possibly can.
Love, laugher, happiness, compassion, contentment, joyful feelings, are all expressions of balance and reflections of alignment.
You should know, Dear One, that joy is at the center of balance and alignment for us all, and that your experience of it serves a far greater purpose than just making you feel good.
So just in case you were wondering if feeling better, if going in search of your center, in search of balance is really worth all of the effort, we want to reassure you, that it most definitely is.
You don’t only hurt when you are injured Dear One. You don’t only feel discomfort when something is broken.
Sometimes you hurt because you are in a space that no longer fits you, that is too small for you, that you have outgrown.
This may be one of those times.
How do you know? If you believe that feeling better will require you to move backwards, to undo something that has already been been done, to take back something that has already been said, you know.
If that is the case Dear One, don’t try and fix it. Don’t try to stop it, bandage it or cure it. Don’t spend your time running around looking for a remedy that will help you to restore what was, that will allow you to move yourself back into the place that you were before, back into that space that felt safe, familiar and comfortable to you.
You don’t belong there anymore.
Be at peace with where you are, Dear One – as the place where you are now standing is a pretty remarkable one.
Why?
Because you are there.
You are a blessed being, divine, an expression of spirit in the physical. Do you have any idea just how remarkable it is to get to be in the physical – on the leading edge of creation – on the leading edge of all that is? Well, we’ll tell you, it’s pretty remarkable.
There is so much going on around you and within you, in every moment, that we are constantly amazed that you are not constantly amazed. You have access to an unlimited number of experiences, a constantly changing stream of them; one, and then the next, and then the next – and you have the remarkable ability to contribute to the creation of each one, to allow them or resist them, and to interact with them in any way that you choose.
So now do you understand?
The place that you are standing is a pretty remarkable one.
Why?
Because you are there.
You want things to be different, Dear One?
Do something differently.
That’s the secret.
Tell everyone.