On: The most important thing
What you believe, Dear One, is so much more important than what is.
In fact, it is the most important thing that there is.
What you believe, Dear One, is so much more important than what is.
In fact, it is the most important thing that there is.
Are you winning, Dear One, or are you losing?
You’re the only one that knows for sure, because no one else is playing but you.
If you want to feel better about the decisions that you are making in your life, Dear One, we have a suggestion for you; STOP ASKING OTHER PEOPLE WHAT THEY THINK OF THEM. 🙂
In what direction will you be traveling today, Dear One?
Towards that which you want or towards that which you do not want?
Not sure?
Here is a very simple way to help you figure it out.
Decide right now; Are you are going to allow yourself to be guided by your heart, your hopes, your dreams, your desires, and a vision of success for yourself, or by your fears, your doubts, your uncertainties, and your insecurities?
Your answer will tell you all that you need to know.
If you don’t feel good about the decisions you make yesterday, Dear One, if you are unhappy with the choices that you made, know that you don’t have to regret them. You can choose to accept them, learn from them and choose differently today instead if you would like.
No matter how badly you feel, no matter how badly you made them feel, no matter how much you punish yourself, or those around you, regret will not solve, fix, change or improve anything in any way, shape, or form.
It never has and it never will.
Regret won’t help you or them to forget, forgive, connect, improve, repair, restore, heal or move on, Dear One.
But forgiveness will – change will – hope will – courage will – faith will – strength, love, kindness, and compassion will.
The moment that you decide that you are ready to embrace order in your life, Dear One, your life will begin to become orderly.
Why?
Because once you decide, once you become certain of what it is that you want, your attitude, your choices, your actions, and your behaviors will all begin to support that decision.
Once you decide, Dear One, you will seek out, choose, create and attract order over chaos.
The hard part is not creating what you want.
The hard part is deciding what it is that you really want to create.
There is a very distinct difference between abundance and excess, Dear One.
Do you know what that difference is?
Intention.
The actions taken to create both may very well be the same, but rest assured, that the outcomes generated as a result will most definitely not be.
Abundance will empower you, fuel you, lift you up, and excess will overwhelm you, drain you, and weigh you down.
So just in case you were wondering, Dear One, while you are in the process of creating, yes, intention matters, a lot.
Taking good care of yourself does not mean pushing yourself to extremes, Dear One, to do all that you want to do, and be all that you want you to be. And it also does not mean sheltering yourself from challenges, protecting yourself from your fears, giving up, quitting, or walking away when things get tough either.
Taking good care of yourself means always remembering to love yourself enough to choose balance, to choose joy, to choose patience and compassion in every moment, knowing that doing so will not inhibit your progress along your path but will actually hasten it.
It only feels as if you are risking something by stepping out into the unknown, Dear One – going somewhere that you have never gone before, trying something that you have never tried before.
But the truth is that there is no safer place that you could possibly be than on the edge of something new, in the process of creation.
The same energy that creates worlds, creates healing, creates art, creates music, creates poetry, creates abundance, creates cupcakes.
What safer place could there be than standing fully present on the leading edge of yourself, on the leading edge of thought, completely engulfed in the limitless energy of creation?
The more you open up to it, the more you trust it, the more you allow it to flow to you and through you and all around you, the safer you will be.
Resistance is what causes risk, Dear One. Fear, hesitation and uncertainty pinch off the flow of creative energy to you.
So what we are saying to you is that holding back, hesitation, doubt, resistance and fear are greater sources of risks in your life than trying something new ever would be, ever could be.
Risk big, Dear One. Jump, Leap, Soar in the unknown. Trust us when we tell you that there is no safer place for you to be.
It is understandable, Dear One, for you to fear change, for you to be frightened, nervous, or hesitant about the idea of moving from what is known to what is unknown.
But what if we told you that by moving forward, and embracing change, you would actually be doing the exact opposite.
What if we told you that by pursuing your passions, trusting your instincts, taking the leap, and letting change in, you would be stepping back into a very familiar place, a place that is more YOU than any other place could be, a place that is made up of the energy that created you, that you were born into, and have spent all of eternity in.
The truth is, Dear One, that the more you trust yourself, the more you let go, the more you allow yourself to follow your heart and to change, to move from what is known to what is unknown, the more at home you will feel, the more at home you will be.