You want things to be different, Dear One?

Do something differently.

That’s the secret.

Tell everyone.

Stop trying to be the person that you think the world wants you to be and just be the person that you are, Dear One.

The reality of you is infinitely more powerful, intelligent, interesting, fun, lovable, humorous, desirable, attractive, genuine – more everything – than any illusion of you ever could be.

This is how you master this day, Dear One;

• Sleep when you are tired
• Eat when you are hungry
• Move when you are restless
• Cry when you are sad

And love yourself, in every way, through it all.

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• The world needs you here, Dear One, in the present moment, as this is the only place from where you can effect real change.

• Your friends and family need you here too, as this is the only place from where they can truly benefit from your love.

• Your physical body needs you here, as this is the only place from where it can heal and grow stronger.

• And we need you here, as this is the place where our connection is  and always will be the strongest.

So where do you go from here, Dear One?

We are hoping that by now, the answer would be clear.

When it comes to your relationships, Dear One, which do you want more?

• To keep yourself protected
• To experience deeper, richer, stronger, and more meaningful connections than you have ever had before

It’s not possible for you to do both at once.

You’re going to have to choose.

• You are blessed, even when you are struggling
• You are divine, even when you fail
• You are a beautiful, even when your body is tired, your eyes are dark, and your skin is sallow
• You are precious, even when you are poor
• You are loved, even when feel unworthy

The truth is, Dear One, that you are who you are; blessed, divine, beautiful, precious, and loved, and there is absolutely nothing that you or anyone else could ever do that is ever going to change that.

Insecurity, Dear One, is fueled by a fear of rejection, a fear of being left unloved.

That pit you feel in your stomach is dependency.

It is an empty space inside you that is waiting for nourishment to be sent your way.

Reach out to another for the nourishment you need, and you may or may not get what you need in return.

Reach out to your source instead, and you need never fear that hunger again.

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You are not lost, damaged or irreparably broken, Dear One.  You have not traveled so far off course that you need to be concerned that you will not be able to find your way back.

We want to assure you that there is nothing fundamentally wrong with you – you are not out of order – you do not need to be “fixed”.  (Although we can understand why it is that you might be feeling that way)

When you stop prioritizing those things in your life that bring you the greatest amount of joy, healing, comfort, support, relief, satisfaction or pleasure – it should be of no surprise that you are left not feeling your best.

But you don’t need to worry about it.  You simply need to decide to start choosing differently!

And once you do, we think you will be pleasantly surprised to discover just how quickly things can snap right back into place.

Take one step forward at a time Dear One, joyfully, intentionally, mindfully, feel good about where you are going, and you will be traveling faster towards your desired destination then if you ran full steam ahead towards it motivated by frustration, sadness, anger, fear or insecurity.

Mindful choices guided by good feelings are infinitely more powerful than those guided by loss, lack, obligation, fear or desperation.

It is not the amount of space between where you are and where you want to be that determines the length of your journey Dear One.

The length of your journey is determined by the distance that you must travel from where you are, to feeling good about where you want to be.

And how long that takes, is entirely up to you.

There are an infinite number of different ways for you learn, Dear One.

• You can learn from standing the sidelines or you can learn by jumping in.
• You can learn by playing it safe or by taking a risk.
• You can learn through solitude or through connection.

Which to choose depends entirely on what kind of learning experience you are hoping to have.

And that is something that no one but you can decide for yourself.

So if you were hoping that we were going to help you out this time, that we were going to give you the answer, we are sorry to say that we can not, we will not tell you what to do.

But we will give you one small hint, Dear One.

And here it is.

If you can, jump.