If someone that you love Dear One, is not living up to your expectations of them, instead of being disappointed, instead of trying to change them, instead of trying to fix them, instead of trying to force yourself to stop loving them in order to put an end to your unhappiness, why not simply change your expectation of them instead?
Just a suggestion.
There is nothing more potent Dear One, more electric, exciting, powerful, or more full of potential for creating abundance than a brilliant idea.
There is no more commanding or concentrated positive point of attraction in all of the universe.
If you are fortunate enough to discover one, to come up with one on your own, or to have someone else share one with you, don’t make the mistake of ignoring it, dismissing it, belittling it, or rationalizing it away.
Act on it, immediately. Take the bait, run with the ball, get carried away, be inspired and take whatever action is necessary, as soon as you possible can, to turn it into a reality.
And do you know makes an idea brilliant Dear One?
We’ll tell you.
You deciding it is so.
The next time that you find yourself getting angry, frustrated, fearful or anxious Dear One, when things don’t go according to plan we want you to ask yourself, which you are more committed to, the experience of the journey or the path?
You should know Dear One, that as soon as you stop feeding it with your thoughts, acknowledging it with your attention, strengthening it with your words, and telling everyone that you can get to listen about how much you wish it wasn’t so, that which no longer serves you, that which you longer want, will begin to go away.
The best way to approach a bad day Dear One, is this — to remember this one very important thing — that no matter bad things look, no matter how bad thing appear to be, no matter how hopeless you think the situation is — it won’t last. As experience has already taught you time and time again, it never does.
The quicker that you can get back to doing/choosing/focusing your attention on those things that are going right, those things that you love, those things that bring you joy, that incite laughter, that inspire feelings of gratitude, hope, creativity, excitement, levity, anticipation, and excitement within you, the quicker it will pass.
And just how long will that take?
Well that is entirely up to you.
We’ve got some great news for you Dear One!
Your success is totally and completely dependent on you, and you alone.
Abundance, happiness, love, creativity, inspiration, well-being can all be yours, anytime that you would like.
You can allow them into your life whenever you want them.
You don’t need to wait for someone else to give them to you. You don’t need to ask for permission to take them. You don’t need to rely on someone else to create opportunities for you or unlock doors for you.
You do not need to wait for anything or anyone Dear One.
All you need to do is remember that you are worthy, that you are deserving of all of these things, and open yourself up and receive them.
Isn’t that a relief?
Haste un favor y deja de constantemente tratar de hacer la decisión correcta, Querido. Creenos.
La decisión correcta no es la que necesitas hacer.
Para decidir cual es la ‘correcta’ necesitas juzgar. Requiere que examines a una persona o situación y que la juzgues como correcta o equivocada, en vez de aceptarla así como es. El juzgar solo te desconecta, te separa de tu mas mayor fuente de fuerza, inspiración y alegría – tu conección a todo lo que es.
Por lo tanto, hoy en vez de hacer la decisión ‘correcta’, Querido, ¿porque no elijes algo mejor para tí y haces una decisión de amor, una decisión de compasión, una decisión honorable y generosa, bondadosa y alegre?
If you don’t feel good about the decisions you make yesterday Dear One, if you are unhappy with the choices that you made, know that you don’t have to regret them. You can choose to accept them, learn from them and choose differently today instead if you would like.
No matter how badly you feel, no matter how badly you made them feel, no matter how much you punish yourself, or those around you, regret will not solve, fix, change or improve anything in any way, shape, or form.
It never has and it never will.
Regret won’t help you or them to forget, forgive, connect, improve, repair, restore, heal or move on Dear One.
But forgiveness will – change will – hope will – courage will – faith will – strength, love, kindness, and compassion will.
What you believe Dear One, is so much more important than what is.
In fact, it is the most important thing that there is.
We know that it doesn’t always feel that way, but it is that way.
If you don’t like the way yours is being spent, do something about it.
You’re the only one who can.