They are not the reason you are exhausted Dear One.

You are.  You are exhausting yourself by trying to please them, by choosing to prioritize them and their needs above your own.

They are not the ones to blame here.  You are doing this all by yourself.

And you can choose to stop doing it anytime that you would like.

We realize that habits can be convenient Dear One, real time savers, but if it didn’t serve you well yesterday, or the day before that, or the day before that, what makes you think it is going to serve you well today?

Unhappiness really is much too high a price to pay for the illusion of convenience that comes with thoughtlessly maintaining unhealthy patterns.

We just thought you should know.

Think about what motivates your own poor, rash, unkind, thoughtless, fearful, impulsive, or aggressive behavior Dear One.

Is it an intentional desire to hurt, upset, inconvenience, or distress those around you?

Or is it something else?

Please try and remember that before you take their words, actions, or behaviors personally.

You can choose to believe that you can handle it Dear One, or you can choose to believe that you can’t.

Whichever choice you make, you’ll be right.

What an enormous waste of your precious time to spend even one more minute of it wondering  “what if” Dear One.  Who cares about what could have been?  It didn’t happen!  It wasn’t!  All of the wondering in the world is never going to change that – ever – regardless of how much of yourself you choose to sacrifice to the idol of regret.

What a shame it would be to miss out on something really fantastically wonderful in the moment because you were wasting your time looking backwards at your past.

It’s time to let go of the disappointment.  It’s time to let go of the notion that you lost out or missed out on something.  Because you haven’t.  Trust us.  Everything that is meant to be, will be.

Let it go – release yourself from the prison of “what if” and join us once again in the present moment of “what is”.  You’re the only one that can free yourself.  You are the only one with key.  Use it.  We promise you, you won’t be sorry that you did.

Abundance is a mindset Dear One.  It is not an actual physical state of being.

Acquiring abundance, acquiring more joy, success, love, wealth, comfort, health, more anything, more everything in your life is not actually a journey of accumulation, but one of release.

The more you let go of your belief that you live in a universe of limited resources, the more you let go of limiting thoughts, beliefs, actions and behaviors, the more abundance you will allow, the more abundant you will be.

Do you want to serve the greater good today Dear One?

Do you want your thoughts, words, actions and deeds to serve the best interests of yourself and those around you?

Then do what makes you happy.

Make choices that make you feel better, that make you feel more open, grounded and connected to your source in each moment, and you will be doing exactly that.

If you don’t want it anymore Dear One, if it is your intention to be done with it forever, to remove it from your life because it no longer serves you, contrary to what you may believe and what prior experience may have taught you, you don’t need to exert a great deal of effort to rid yourself of it, to eliminate it from your experience.

In fact, you really don’t need to exert any effort at all.

You simply need to stop choosing it.

How do you do that?

By not giving it even one more minute of your attention.

There are so many beautiful things that you want for yourself in this life Dear One.

Why waste even one more second of your time focused on anything else?

You can’t punish yourself for a mistake, misjudgment, or misstep Dear One, and rectify it at the same it.

You’re going to have to choose, one or the other.

You’re going to have to decide which is more important to you; returning to a state of balanced well-being or remaining self-critical.

So, what’s it going to be?