When what you want is not what is showing up for you Dear One, a simple misalignment may be all there is to blame.
How do you know if this is the case?
Ask yourself if your actions, thoughts and beliefs are in alignment with your desires.
And remember:
As soon as you stop feeding it with your thoughts, acknowledging it with your words, and reacting to it with your actions, that which you no longer want, which no longer serves you, will begin to fade away Dear One.
You should know that it is your continued focus on it, your continued attention to it, that is causing it to stick around.
The time for pretending to be weak, timid, incapable, powerless, unworthy or anything less than you really are, is long over Dear One.
The day does not require you to be brilliant, funny, witty, charming, or thin Dear One.
It does not require you be as good as, or better than anyone else.
It does not even require that you be as good as or better than you were yesterday.
The only thing that it requires Dear One, is that you be you, and do the best that you can do, today.
It would be absurd Dear One, to begin your day intentionally trying to create negative experiences for yourself.
Don’t you think?
And yet, that is essentially what you are doing when you start off your day with negative expectations.
Before you choose Dear One, we would like to ask you to first remember why it is that you are here.
It is not to tie up one more loose end, to make more money, or to lose 5 more lbs.. It is not to complete the items on one more to-do list. It is not to prove a point – when you believe that you are right and that they are wrong. It is not to beat yourself up – when you believe that they are right and that you are wrong.
You are here to live your life and have an experience of being alive. You are here to feel, to create, connect, risk, love, laugh, cry, learn and trust. You are here to choose, decide, and know the depths to which you can experience joy. You are here to have an adventure and to discover who and what you really are and what you are capable of.
Remember that Dear One, and then choose.
Deja que el cuento se desenvuelva por si mismo. No hace falta escribas el argumento. De por si, tiene un final mucho mejor del que tu puedes imaginar. Solo necesitas permitir que el cuento se cuente solo.
If you want to feel better about the decisions that you are making in your life Dear One, we have a suggestion for you; stop asking other people for their opinions of them.
Why not surprise yourself today Dear One, and do that which you have been afraid to do?
What are you thinking about right now Dear One?
If you want more of it in your life, keep right on thinking about it, focusing on it, giving it your attention.
If you want less of it, we suggest you pick a different thought ASAP.
Yes, your thoughts really are that powerful.