Yes Dear One, being in a committed relationship is absolutely essential to living a happy life.
If you are not already in one, we suggest that you get yourself into one ASAP.
We want to see you make an authentic, joyful, loving, passionate, compassionate, forgiving, life long commitment to someone …. yourself.
It will be the most important, sacred and fulfilling commitment that you will ever make Dear One.
Trust yourself Dear One. Trust your heart. Always.
We know that sometimes that can be a difficult thing for you to do, especially when you feel as though you have sufficient evidence proving that doing so in the past has gotten you into trouble, has steered you in the wrong direction.
But what if we told you, that it just wasn’t true. What if we told you that all of those experiences that you have had trusting your heart, the ones that did not work out the way that you wanted them to, the way that you thought they would, had in fact turned out exactly the way that you needed them to.
What if we told you that?
Your heart always, always, always knows Dear One.
Trusting it will always, always, always serve you better than not trusting it ever will.
If you really want to be helpful today Dear One, do things that make you smile, that bring you pleasure, that bring you joy.
When you are happy, you are in a far greater position to help those around you then you are when you choose to sacrifice your own well being for theirs, regardless of how good your intentions may be.
You are making a contribution to the world around you Dear One, with every thought that you think, every intention that set, every word that you speak, every action that you take.
You can choose to contribute frustration, fear, anger, self-loathing, jealousy, pettiness, revenge, mediocrity or complacency to the world if you would like.
Or you can choose to contribute compassion, bravery, tolerance, laughter, confidence, generosity, optimism, hope, well, you get the idea.
The only thing that you can’t choose Dear One, is to make no contribution at all.
So, have you decided yet what you would like your contribution to be today?
Asking “Why” won’t change anything Dear One.
But taking action will.
Do you want to start feeling better Dear One, right now?
If so, then follow these 3 simple steps:
*Repeat as often as is necessary until desired results are achieved.
You don’t have to fight the brewing storm Dear One, or fear it, run from it, hide from it or prepare to brace yourself against it.
You’ve got another choice you know.
You can simply allow it to come, and trust yourself enough to know that you are strong enough, wise enough, and resilient enough to handle it, and whatever it may bring your way.
Because you are.
You have a unique opportunity available to you today Dear One, that will not be available to you tomorrow.
Today, you have the opportunity to make THIS day unforgettable.
This opportunity will not be available to you tomorrow Dear One.
So you better take advantage of it, while you still can.
Pregúntate qua haras ahora. Pregúntate que tiene el futuro para ti.
Pregúntate como querer mas profundamente y sin límites. Pregúntate que vas a desayunar – con curiosidad, anticipación y entusiasmo. Considera sin límites todas las posibilidades de tu vida y todas las opciones que tienes. Pero no te quedes preguntando por mucho tiempo porque sino perderas el benficio del preguntarte.
El preguntarte te ayuda a motivarte, a tomar acción, a ampliár tus horizontes. Pero sirve solo en moderación. Es como la gasolina para tu carro. Una vez que llenas el tanque, hay que irse, hasta la próxima vez que necesites gasolina. No pierdas el tiempo sentado en la gasolinera.
Hay tanto para exeperienciar en este camino que llamamos ‘la vida’.
Cuando tu tanque este lleno…..vete!
If you want things to be different Dear One, you’ve got to choose differently.
It really is the only way.