Do you want to know where you belong Dear One?

You belong in a place that makes you happy.  You belong with people that you love and that love you.  You belong wherever it is that you feel strong, supported, powerful, and creative.  You belong where you feel encouraged, inspired, and energized, hopeful, courageous, accepted and safe.

That is where you belong Dear One.

If, when you look around you, you find that you are not in a place like this, then perhaps it is time for you to acknowledge that where you are, might not be the right place for you.

There is a reason that you feel a strong desire for a physical connection with others Dear One, aside from just a longing for sexual gratification — be it through a nudge or a tickle, a handshake or a hug, a kiss, a smack, an intimate embrace, or, of course, through sex.

Do you want to know why that is Dear One?

It is because you all have source within you.  You all have a spark of the divine that exists within your physical bodies, and aside from your connection to it through your own heart, the next closest source of divine energy that is available to you at all times, is each other.

There are many things in this world that you can’t control Dear One.

But your thoughts are not one of them.

If the one that you are thinking right now is not pleasing to you, does not feel good, is not causing you joy,  we want to remind you that you can take charge, and choose another.

Some thoughts can be so overwhelming, so all encompassing, so powerful that it can be easy to forget that you are choosing them.

But make no mistake Dear One, you are.

What are you waiting for Dear One?

What are you saving it for?

What are you saving you for?

Why not give it everything you’ve got?

• Here
• Now
• Today

Yes, there is a chance that things might not work out the way that you want them to.

But there is also a chance that they might work out even better than that, better than anything you ever could have ever possibly imagined for yourself.

You’ll never know if you never try.

Yes, it’s a risk Dear One.

But one that we really think you should take.

So, will you take it?

What you do today matters so much more than what you did yesterday Dear One.

Your energy, your attention, your effort, your focus, your creativity, your love, will be so much better spent here, rather than there.

Don’t look at it as if you are making the decision to give something up Dear One.

Because we know that giving something up can be really, really, hard to do.

Especially if it something that you love, find comfort in, or have become accustomed to.

Trying seeing it from a new perspective – for what it really is.

Making an empowered choice to pick something new instead.

You’re never going to be finished Dear One. You’re never going to get it all done.  So you might as well stop trying.

The day does not require you to be brilliant, or funny, or witty, or charming or thin Dear One.  The day only requires that you do your best.  And that does not mean being better than anyone else or even better than you used to be.  It means doing the best that you can do, today.

Most of the challenges, struggles and issues in your life Dear One, would resolve themselves beautifully if only you would remember to choose to take care of yourself first – to nurture, honor, love, and respect yourself first – to create, to discover, to experience a good feeling place for yourself, first.