Avoidance or Creation.
Which path are you going to choose to take today, Dear One?
Are you going to make this day about doing your best to avoid that which you do not want to see, hear, feel, or experience, or about creating that which you do?
Choose wisely because these two paths extend out in opposite directions from one another, and will most definitely not lead you to the same place.
If someone is not living up to your expectations of them, Dear One, instead of being disappointed, instead of trying to change them, instead of trying to fix them, instead of trying to force yourself to not care in order to put an end to your unhappiness, why not simply change your expectation of them instead?
Now, wouldn’t that be easier?
The moment that you decide that you are ready to embrace order in your life, Dear One, your life will begin to become orderly.
Why?
Because once you decide, once you become certain of what it is that you want, your attitude, your choices, your actions, and your behaviors will all begin to support that decision.
Once you decide, Dear One, you will seek out, choose, create and attract order over chaos.
The hard part is not creating what you want.
The hard part is deciding what it is that you really want to create.
If you are being asked to choose, Dear One, which answer do you think will serve you best?
A: Hold on to your plans
B: Live your life
Only an open heart can heal, Dear One.
You have no obligation to anyone, Dear one, that will ever be more important than your obligation to yourself.
The goal, Dear One, is not to evolve to a place where you no longer need external validation to know, and feel, and own your self-worth.
The goal is to evolve to a place where you know how and where to get it! :)
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It is better to do nothing, Dear One, then it is to move forward in distress, frustration, anger, resentment, insecurity, hatred, or greed.
It is better to create nothing, then it is to create more of that which is unwanted.
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Start by asking yourself this first, Dear One:
Do you really need help, or do you simply need to remember just how strong, capable, resilient, and powerful you are?
The reason we are asking is to help you figure out if this is going to be an outside job or an inside job.
It will be much easier for you to find the help you are looking for if you know where it is that you need to begin your search.
So, you don’t know the answer. Now what?
Relish in the fact that you don’t know the answer, Dear One.
Because it is actually a very good thing.
It means that you are not acting from a place of habit, that you are awake, and that your decision will not be determined by an automatic habitual behavior or pattern.
And this is a very good thing, A great thing actually.
Next time this happens to you, try not to sweat it, and try not to “think” about what the answer should be. Try not to turn back to your logical brain to see what habit dictates the answer should be.
And most importantly, trust that there is a very good reason that your logical, habitual brain did not automatically reply, and is asking you to look elsewhere for the answer, is giving you the opportunity to give your heart a chance to be heard.
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