Apologize Dear One, to those you have wronged or have treated unfairly. Simply stopping the negative behavior is not always enough to turn it around – to let it go – for either one of you.
Something very powerful happens when you shine a light into the darkness, when you acknowledge your actions, and give others the opportunity to do the same.
Apologize Dear One to release, to truly let it go.
You will be giving both yourself and the others involved a great gift.
It only feels as if you are risking something by stepping out into the unknown Dear One – going somewhere that you have never gone before, trying something that you have never tried before.
But the truth is that there is no safer place that you could possibly be than on the edge of something new, in the process of creation.
The same energy that creates worlds, creates healing, creates art, creates music, creates poetry, creates abundance, creates cupcakes.
What safer place could there be than standing fully present on the leading edge of yourself, on the leading edge of thought, completely engulfed in the limitless energy of creation?
The more you open up to it, the more you trust it, the more you allow it to flow to you and through you and all around you, the safer you will be.
Resistance is what causes risk Dear One. Fear, hesitation and uncertainty pinch off the flow of creative energy to you.
So what we are saying to you is that holding back, hesitation, doubt, resistance and fear are greater sources of risks in your life than trying something new ever would be, ever could be.
Risk big Dear One. Jump, Leap, Soar in the unknown. Trust us when we tell you that there is no safer place for you to be.
Leave it all alone Dear One. Forget about trying to pick it all back up. Truly. Just let it all lay there exactly where it is for the moment.
And only when you are ready – start to pick back up the pieces – but selectively this time. Choose intentionally. Choose consciously. Choose wisely. Pick up only those pieces that you truly want, that you truly desire, that you know will contribute to feelings of joy, love, laughter, connection and happiness in your life. But do so, one-at-a-time.
If you keep on trying to carry the whole load with you everywhere that you go, you will only find yourself needlessly bogged down, yet again, incredibly overwhelmed, yet again and in a prime position to drop it all, yet again.
Do just one thing at a time Dear one, joyously, with an open mind and an open heart, and you will be right back on track – aligned with your life’s mission – to complete nothing and experience everything.
Remember, you never get it done. You’ll never be finished. There is no finish line you are racing towards. If you don’t remember to enjoy yourself along the way, then you will be missing out on the very best part of being alive, of existence.
Your life is meant to be a joy Dear One, and if the things that you are doing, from day-to-day-to-day, are no longer bringing you joy, then it is time to let them go. Simply put them down or leave them down, and step away.
Things can feel out of control Dear One, when your desires and your actions are not in alignment.
Don’t be surprised when actions fueled by insecurity, obligation, fear or a sense of loyalty don’t yield the results you were hoping for.
Align your actions with your desires Dear One and you will find that there will be much less of a discrepancy between what it is you are wanting and what it is that is showing up for you.
Optimism is a very powerful tool at your disposal Dear one and we would love to see you pull it out and use it a great deal more than you have been.
The thing about optimism is that it really is one of those all or nothing kind of things . You are either optimistic or you are not.
This is a yes or no, a stand still or leap choice for you Dear One. And we want to wholeheartedly and enthusiastically encourage you to jump, leap, soar right into optimism, completely, 100%, without any hesitation.
Decide right now that you are going to look for and see only the best in every person, situation or circumstance in your life. Don’t think about it – just do it.
We can assure you, your life will be all the better for it.
What have you got to lose?
Pessimism, doubt and judgement will all still be there for you if you should find that you really just can’t live without them.
Make yourself smile today Dear one.
How?
By making choices that make you smile.
The world needs you in the present moment Dear One. Your friends and love ones need you in the preset. Your physical body needs you in the present. And we need you in the present – as that will always be our strongest point of connection.
The past is over Dear One. There is nothing more for you to do there. There is nothing more you can do there. And the future does not yet exist.
Join us here, won’t you?
You are here to have an experience of being alive Dear One.
You can’t get it wrong. You simply cannot. Just like you can’t order the wrong flavor of ice cream. No flavor is wrong. Each flavor is just different.
The more you order – the more flavors you will get a chance to taste – the more you will discover what your personal preferences are. Some flavors you will like, some you will love, and some you will discover that you don’t like much at all.
But with each choice Dear One, you are learning.
As long as you keep choosing, as long as you continue to taste all that you want to taste, and allow yourself to continue to have new experiences, you can’t get it wrong. We promise you that.
You now officially have one less thing to worry about!
Its time to start enjoying yourself/enjoying life more Dear One, and stop putting so much effort into trying to please those around you, especially at the expense of your own happiness.
Do things that bring you joy, that make you smile, that make you happy, and you will be in a far greater position to please those around you then you would be when you sacrifice your own well being for theirs.
If you are not happy yourself Dear One, what could you possibly have to offer anyone else that would be of any real value to them anyway?
You mustn’t let a fear of rejection stop you from following your heart Dear One.
Rejection will not kill you. We promise you that.
But repression might, if you make a habit of it.
Don’t let doubt and fear dominate your thinking and influence all that you do. Open up Dear One. Open up wide, and say what it is you really want to say and do what it is that you really want to do.
Act courageously, and then celebrate the fact that you have done so – regardless of the outcome.
Your heart will thank you for it, in more ways than one.