At long last, here is the answer that you have been looking for Dear One.

How to make them all happy, in two easy steps:

STEP 1
Make yourself happy, do that which brings you happiness, because you can’t share something with someone else that you don’t first possess yourself.

STEP 2
Teach them by example what it looks like to take responsibility for creating your own happiness, because in the end, if they really want to be happy, they are going to have to learn how to choose it for themselves.

The only thing that makes their path more significant than yours, their potential more powerful than yours, their successes more important than yours, their accomplishments more meaningful than yours Dear One, is you deeming it so.

Today we want you to count your blessings Dear One.

Why?

Because when you are counting your blessings you are not counting your challenges, your struggles, your heartaches, your disappointments, your fears, your pains, your mistakes, or your losses.

That’s why.

When you are learning to do something new Dear One, either by choice or by necessity, you always have options available to you for how you are going to proceed:

• You can choose to resist and proceed with frustration, resentment, impatience and regret for the task at hand
• You can choose to allow and proceed with excitement, optimism, hope, and an open mind as you approach the challenge before you.

You can choose to focus on the work, effort and energy that will be required of you or you can choose to focus on the many new doors that will open for you a result.

In which direction are you going to lean Dear One?

Which option do you think is going to best serve you and bring you the greatest amount of joy as you learn?

Love is not a word, Dear One.

• It is an action
• It is an intention
• It is a feeling, an allowing, a way to be.
• It is an energy, an attitude, a lens through which the view the world

Love is a lot of things Dear One.

But a word is definitely not one of them.

Remember that the next time that you say it, or hear it spoken to you.

You’re so close Dear One.

Right this minute, you are only one thought away from feeling so much better.

Don’t give up now.

 Never save the best for last, always choose it first.    

Every decision that you make, every action that you take, every single activity, thought or behavior that you choose Dear One, influences your experience of and has an impact on every other that follows it.

Would you rather have the best of what’s possible influencing what comes next for you, or the worst?

Finding yourself in unfamiliar territory is actually a good thing Dear One.

It means that things are moving, shifting, changing, evolving.

Instead of getting distressed about it, questioning it,  and exerting your time and energy trying to figure out how to get yourself back out of it, give yourself a minute to adjust, look around and explore this new space, because chances are that when you do, you will discover that you are standing exactly where you need to be.

In your search for balance Dear One, are you:

A:  Aligning yourself with what feels good to you, your passions, your priorities, your needs, your wants, your desires, your vision for your life?

B:  Aligning yourself with what you think is suppose to feel good , with what you think your priorities are supposed to be, with what you think you are supposed to want, need and desire for yourself or with what they want, need or desire for you?

If you are continually finding yourself out of balance, out of alignment Dear One, your answer to this question may help you to understand why.

Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do Dear One, is to let go.