If you want to help them grieve Dear One:

• Ask them what happened
• Ask them how they are doing
• Ask them how they are feeling

If you want to help them heal:

• Ask them to tell you about the one that they lost
• Ask them to tell you what they love most about them
• Ask them to tell you how they made them laugh
• Ask them to tell you how they made them feel

Help them to remember, and re-connect with the love, not the loss

Some people will tell you that wishful thinking will get you nowhere Dear One, that it is useless, pointless and a waste of your time.

Well, we are here to tell you that those people are wrong.

The truth is that it is wishful thinking that gets you everywhere.

So if you are not already doing it, if you are not already allowing yourself to feel the pure pleasure, joy and excitement of dreaming about, thinking of and wishing for all that you need, want and desire, start doing so today, right now.

You are the creator of your reality Dear One, joyfully imagining it the way that you want it to be is one of the most realistic steps that you take in the process of creating it.

Do you want to know how you turns things around Dear One, how you get it to stop feeling like things are spinning out of control?

We’ll tell you.

Remember that you are the creator of your world. Remember that you are the one in charge, the one deciding, choosing, attracting, and manifesting all that you’ve got, all that you are experiencing, all that is headed your way.

If you want to slow things down, slow them down, if you want to speed things up, speed them up, if you want more or less, bigger or smaller, lighter or darker, (you get the idea) create it, choose it, make it so.  It’s just that simple.

How?

Stop reacting and start creating.

Align your thoughts, energy, words, deeds, and beliefs with what you want Dear One, instead of with what is, and you’ll see what we are talking about.

Why hold on to a grudge, Dear One, when there are so many other more pleasant things out there that you can choose to hold on to instead?

Unlike what many of you may believe, jealousy Dear One, has very little to do with lack, or wanting, or shortage, or envy, or greed, or want, and everything to do with powerlessness, with believing yourself to be powerless, not in control, a victim of life, and of your circumstances.

Jealousy, Dear One, is something that only happens, that only can happen, when you truly believe that you are not the creator of your world.

People that are aware, that know what they are truly capable of, people that take full and total responsibility for their lives, that believe that they are the creators of their lives, that believe that they are responsible for everything that they have, and everything that they don’t have, and everything that does and does not happen to them, really have no need or use for jealousy.

Make sense?

Do you want to know what’s  coming next Dear One?  Do you want to know what is headed your way right now?

The short answer is: It depends

• When you create peacefully, when you think, speak, act, and feel at peace, you are creating peace, you are attracting peacefulness to you, you are in the process of manifesting peaceful people, events, and circumstances into your life.

• When you create from a place of stress, from a place of agitation, desperation, or hopelessness, from a place of fear, lack, or greed, with a lack of compassion, empathy, or forgiveness, you are engaging in the process of manifesting into your life people, events, and circumstances that will bring you more of the same.

So if you want to know what is coming next Dear One, if you want to know what is headed your way right now, start paying attention to how you are feeling, what you are thinking, what you are saying, how you are behaving, and the attitude with which you are doing it all, and it won’t take long for you to figure it out.

Only an open heart can heal, Dear One.

You can choose to believe anything that you want, Dear One.

Unlike the color of your eyes, the size of your feet, or the distance from the tip of your nose to the top of your head, your beliefs are not assigned to you at birth, determined for you by genetics, or handed down to you by some external force in the universe.

(Although we know that sometimes it can feel that way)

They are a very personal choice that you make each and every day.

And if yours are causing you to feel anything other than strong, empowered, connected, worthy, and good about yourself more often than not, please remember that it is well within your power to change them anytime you would like.

No one has it all figured out, Dear one.

No one.

Not even us.

So let yourself off the hook today and stop trying so hard to be the one to do it.

Struggling against what is, working harder, suffering through, will never serve you in a greater capacity towards reaching your goals then getting happy will Dear One.

One small action taken in joy is infinitely more powerful than 100 taken in anger, frustration, fear, resentment, sadness or uncertainty.

Get happy and then get to work – not the other way around, if you can help it.

We assure you that the time spent on yourself first will be well worth the effort.