There is nothing wrong with feeling badly, Dear One.

And there is nothing wrong with feeling sad.

There is nothing wrong with feeling angry, jealous, mad, frustrated, judgmental, insecure or uncertain either.

If that is where you are at, if that is what you are genuinely feeling in your heart, then yes, by all means, you should honor those feelings and allow yourself to experience them fully, to learn from them and understand what they are trying to teach you.

BUT, we want you to know that it is also honorable for you to choose not to.  It is also honorable for you to choose to prioritize your desire to feel better over whatever bad feeling you may be experiencing in the moment.  It is honorable Dear One, for you to decide to not give your attention to things that don’t feel good to you and choose instead, to give it only to things that do.

Make sense?

You are worthy of great, big, unconditional, uncompromising, all encompassing, forgiving, limitless, boundless, joyful, love, Dear One.

And absolutely nothing less.

If you don’t already love yourself this way, we can think of no better time for you to start than right now.

There is nothing that you can or will ever do that will ever make you any more worthy than you are right now.  The simple fact that you exist makes it so.

So, why wait?

Keep looking ahead, Dear One, no matter what.

Where you are going matters so much more than where you have been.

It doesn’t always have to be about trying to achieve something great, Dear One.

You don’t always have to work so hard to make a difference.

What we mean by this is that you don’t constantly need to be striving for, working towards, trying to achieve some ambitious, life changing, envy inspiring, lofty goal for yourself in order to remain on the cutting edge of creation, in order to be doing something worthy, productive or significant with your life.

So you can let yourself off the hook.

Know that it is perfectly ok  for you to set ordinary goals for yourself, to pursue ordinary experiences —  beautifully simple, regular, run of the mill, everyday,  nothing spectacular goals and experiences.

Because the truth is that if it makes you smile, if it makes you feel good, if it brings you joy, then you are doing something worthy, productive and significant with your life.

And if that is the case. Dear One, then the answer is yes, the answer will always be yes – it is totally and completely worth it.

Please remember, Dear One, that having a bad feeling is not a valid excuse for making a bad choice.

Thank you!

If you are still giving your attention to the problem Dear One, the solution will continue to elude you.

You’ve got a big decision to make, Dear One.

Are you going to let joy, trust, confidence, strength, optimism, and self-love guide your choices today, or will it be fear, obligation, habit, sorrow, avoidance, and self-loathing?

What’s it going to be?

It is not your accomplishments that determine your success or failure, Dear One.

It is how you feel while you are in pursuit of them that does.

Slow down, pay attention, be conscious, be deliberate, and enjoy yourself.

Look for the best that is available to you in each and every moment, and failure will not even be an option.

Are you ready to have a little fun today, Dear One?

If your answer is YES, then keep an eye out, because in making that decision you have just triggered a shift in your mind, in your heart, in your body, in your expectations of the day, and that shift has triggered a shift in your  emotions, in your energy, in your spirit, and in the world around you, and the universe has already responded to that shift by shifting itself to bring you what you want, and as a result, opportunities for fun are already on their way to you!

All that is left for you to do is to remember to choose them when they get here.

If your answer is NO, Dear One,  it’s not to late. There is still time for you to change your mind.

Start by choosing to believe with absolute certainty that everything is going to be okay.

And then, act accordingly.

Because the truth is, Dear One, that it will be.